Lying

Lying seems like a straight up concept, but what if it’s more complex. What if there are many kinds of lying. Consider this from one who learned through my own life lessons. Here are examples of the many shades of lying. Doing a favor for someone when you already know going into it you’ll be resentful after. Sacrificing your position on a major moral issue to keep the peace in a relationship. Avoiding saying how you feel about something because you know the other person will be angry (this reinforces to that person that they can use their anger to manipulate you to their way without even having to argue their position). Accepting a partial truth from another (full disclosure is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship). Changing your perspective to gain approval or affection or love. Finally self sacrifice for a relationship to the point of internal shame. Being truthful in all areas can take tremendous bravery but each tiny step will make you feel better about your own sense of self.